4. ์ž…์ด ํŠธ์ด๋Š” ์˜์–ด

24.08.26 Apology Day

ํ•˜ ๋Œ€ํ‘œ 2024. 10. 9. 02:56

My fourth-grade daughter goes to school with her bestie every day.

์ดˆ๋“ฑํ•™๊ต 4ํ•™๋…„์ธ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋”ธ์€ ๋งค์ผ ๋‹จ์ง ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ๊ฐ™์ด ํ†ตํ•™์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

* someone’s bestie : ~์˜ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์นœํ•œ ์นœ๊ตฌ

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But one day, she told me that she had been in an argument with this friend.

๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ์–ด๋Š ๋‚  ๋”ธ์ด ๊ทธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ์‹ธ์› ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋”๊ตฐ์š”.

* be in an argument with : ~์™€ ๋ง๋‹คํˆผ์„ ํ•˜๋‹คโ€‹

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As a result, they started going to school separately, and my daughter seemed to be in a gloomy mood.

๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ํ•™๊ต๋„ ๋”ฐ๋กœ ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ๋”ธ์•„์ด์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ถ„๋„ ์šฐ์šธํ•ด ๋ณด์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

* in a gloomy mood : ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์ด ์šฐ์šธํ•œ

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I didn’t think much of it at first, believing they would soon make up.

์ €๋Š” ๋‘˜์ด ๊ณง ํ™”ํ•ดํ•  ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š” ๋Œ€์ˆ˜๋กญ์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒŒ ์—ฌ๊ฒผ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

* don’t think much of it : ๋Œ€์ˆ˜๋กญ์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋‹ค

* make up : ํ™”ํ•ดํ•˜๋‹ค

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However, as other friends got involved between them, the situation seemed to get worse by the day.

ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‘˜ ์‚ฌ์ด์— ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค๊นŒ์ง€ ๋ผ์–ด๋“ค๋ฉด์„œ, ๋‚ ์ด ๊ฐˆ์ˆ˜๋ก ์‚ฌํƒœ๊ฐ€ ์ ์  ์‹ฌ๊ฐํ•ด์ง€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

* get worse by the day : ๋‚ ์ด ๊ฐˆ์ˆ˜๋ก ์‹ฌ๊ฐํ•ด์ง€๋‹ค

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When the issue didn’t resolve itself over time, I met with the friend’s mother for a heart-to-heart.

์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ํ˜๋Ÿฌ๋„ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ์ด ๋˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„์„œ, ์ €๋Š” ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ๊ทธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์˜ ์—„๋งˆ๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ๊นŠ์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

* resolve itself over time : ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ํ๋ฅด๋ฉด์„œ ์ €์ ˆ๋กœ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ๋˜๋‹ค

* heart-to-heart : ๊นŠ์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”

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A few days later, it was October 24, which is known as “Apple Day.” It’s a play on words in Korean, meaning two people can apologize to each other.

๋ฉฐ์น ์ด ์ง€๋‚˜๊ณ , ๋งˆ์นจ 10์›” 24์ผ, ๋‘˜(2)์ด์„œ ์„œ๋กœ ์‚ฌ(4)๊ณผ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋‚ ‘์ธ ’์‚ฌ๊ณผ์˜ ๋‚  (Apple Day)’์ด ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

* a play on words : ์–ธ์–ด์œ ํฌ, ๋ง์žฅ๋‚œ

* apologize to each other : ์„œ๋กœ ์‚ฌ๊ณผํ•˜๋‹ค

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To mark this day, the children’s teacher organized a campaign where students apologized for things they were sorry for.

์ด๋‚ ์„ ๊ธฐ๋…ํ•ด์„œ, ์•„์ด๋“ค์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜์€ ๊ทธ๋™์•ˆ ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ–ˆ๋˜ ์ผ์„ ์‚ฌ๊ณผํ•˜๋Š” ์บ ํŽ˜์ธ์„ ์ง„ํ–‰ํ•ด ์ฃผ์…จ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

* things one is sorry for : ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” ์ผ

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In the end, my daughter and her friend apologized to each other, hugged, and made up.

๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ๋”ธ์€ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ์„œ๋กœ ์‚ฌ๊ณผํ•˜๊ณ , ์•ˆ์•„ ์ฃผ๋ฉฐ ํ™”ํ•ด๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

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I feel that my daughter has grown a lot through this process.

์ด๋Ÿฐ ๊ณผ์ •์„ ๊ฒช์œผ๋ฉด์„œ ์•„์ด๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ์ด ์„ฑ์žฅํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด ๋“ค์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

* grow a lot : ๋งŽ์ด ์„ฑ์žฅํ•˜๋‹ค

 

 

์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋”~์ž˜ํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์ฑ…์„ ๊ตฌ๋งคํ•ด์„œ ์ฆ๊ฒ๊ฒŒ~์”ฌ๋‚˜๊ฒŒ~ํ•˜์„ธ์š”~
์ˆ ์ˆ ์ˆ  ์˜์–ด๋ง~์ž˜~ํ•˜์‹œ๋Š” ์ฒœ์‚ฌ๋‹˜๐Ÿ˜‡๋“ค ๋•๋ถ„์— ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค~~

24๋…„ 8์›” ์ž…ํŠธ์˜ ๊ตฌ๋งค์ฒ˜~~~๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿงก๐Ÿ’›~~~

 

 

์œ„ ๋งํฌ๋กœ ๊ตฌ๋งค์‹œ ์ฟ ํŒกํŒŒํŠธ๋„ˆ์Šค์˜ ์ผํ™˜์œผ๋กœ ์ด์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅธ ์ผ์ •์•ก์˜ ์ˆ˜์ˆ˜๋ฃŒ๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ณต๋ฐ›์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค~~~
์ฒœ์‚ฌ๐Ÿ˜‡๋‹˜๋“ค ๋•๋ถ„์— ์ด๋ฃจ์–ด์ง„ ์ˆ˜์ต ๋„ˆ๋ฌด๋‚˜ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค~~ 
๋•๋ถ„์— ์ปดํŒจ์…˜ ์•„์ด๋“ค์„ ๋„์šธ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์„œ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค~๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿงก๐Ÿ’›

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