06.26 — Memories of Santiago μ°ν°μκ³ λ₯Ό λ€λ μμ
06.26 — Resistance Bands: I’ve Made a Lot of Progress, Thanks to You! μ ν λ°΄λ: λ€ λλΆμ λ§μ μ§μ μ μ΄λ€μ΄!
06.26 — Style isn’t everything. μ€νμΌμ΄ λ€κ° μλλλΌκ³ .
06.26 — It feels soft. μ΄κ°μ΄ λΆλλ¬μμ.
06.26 — How to Respond to Narcissistic Communication Patterns λλ₯΄μμμ€νΈμ μν΅ λ°©μμ λμνλ λ°©λ²
μ νΈμ 25.06.26 — Memories of Santiago μ°ν°μκ³ λ₯Ό λ€λ μμ
This year, I walked the Santiago Pilgrimage Route.
μ λ μ¬ν΄ μ°ν°μκ³ μλ‘κΈΈμ λ€λ μμ΅λλ€.
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To be honest, I felt very anxious before I left. I kept wondering, "Will I even make it back alive?"
μμ§ν λ§ν΄, λ λκΈ° μ μλ "λ΄κ° μ΄μμ λμμ¬ μλ μμκΉ?" νλ λΆμκ°μ΄ μλΉν μ»Έμ΅λλ€.
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* to be honest : μμ§ν λ§ν΄
* feel very anxious : λ§€μ° λΆμνλ€
* make it back : (무μ¬ν) λμμ€λ€
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But I enjoyed breathtaking scenery as I walked the trail, and met so many wonderful people.
κ·Έλ¬λ κ·Έ κΈΈμ κ±ΈμΌλ©΄μ λ무 λ©μ§ κ²½μΉλ₯Ό λ§λ½νκ³ , μ’μ μ¬λλ€μ λ§μ΄ λ§λ¬μ΅λλ€.
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* enjoy breathtaking scenery : μλ¦λ€μ΄ κ²½μΉλ₯Ό λ§λ½νλ€
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I was able to create some of the most precious memories of my life.
μ΄ μΈμμ μ΄λ©΄μ κ°μ₯ μμ€ν μΆμ΅λ€μ λ§λ€ μ μμμ΅λλ€.
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* the most precious memories : κ°μ₯ μμ€ν μΆμ΅
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I connected with people from all over the world, including France, Italy, the Netherlands, Belgium, Germany, the U.S., and more.
νλμ€, μ΄ν리μ, λ€λλλ, 벨기μ, λ μΌ, λ―Έκ΅ λ± λ€μν κ΅μ μ μ¬λλ€κ³Ό κ΅κ°μ νμ΅λλ€.
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* connect with : ~μ κ΅κ°νλ€
* from all over the world : μΈκ³ μ¬λ¬ λλΌ μΆμ μ
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We were united as fellow pilgrims walking the same path, no matter where or when we met.
μλ‘ κ°μ κΈΈμ κ±·κ³ μλ μλ‘μλ‘μ μ°λ¦¬λ μΈμ μ΄λμ λ§λλ νλμμ΅λλ€.
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* walk the same path : κ°μ κΈΈμ κ±·λ€
* no matter where or when : μΈμ μ΄λλ
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Even with my limited English, I had endless conversations with them.
μ λ μ§§μ μμ΄ μ€λ ₯μ΄μ§λ§ κ·Έλ€κ³Ό λμμμ΄ λ§μ λνλ₯Ό λλμμ΅λλ€.
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* with one's limited English : μ§§μ μμ΄ μ€λ ₯μΌλ‘
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I was grateful to have practiced beforehand with "μ νΈμ."
κ·Έλμ μ΄μ¬ν 곡λΆν 'μ νΈμ'μ κ°μ¬ν¨μ λκΌμ΅λλ€.
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* practice beforehand : μ¬μ μ μ°μ΅νλ€
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I completed the pilgrimage in 27 days.
μ λ 27μΌ λ§μ μλ‘κΈΈμ μμ£Όνμ΅λλ€.
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After that, I spent about two weeks traveling to Porto, Barcelona, and Morocco before returning home.
κ·Έ μ΄ν 2μ£Ό μ λλ ν¬λ₯΄ν¬μ λ°λ₯΄μ λ‘λ, λͺ¨λ‘μ½λ₯Ό μ¬ννκ³ μ§μΌλ‘ λμμμ΅λλ€.
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* spend about two weeks : μ½ 2μ£Όλ₯Ό 보λ΄λ€
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βDialogue Practice
βA : Did you mention you completed the Santiago Pilgrimage?
μ°ν°μκ³ μλ‘κΈΈμ μμ£Όνμ ¨λ€κ³ νμ£ ?
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B : Yes, I went by myself last year.
λ€, μλ μ νΌμ κ°λ€ μμ΄μ.
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* go by oneself : νΌμ κ°λ€
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A : By yourself? That's amazing. How long did it take?
νΌμμ? λλ¨νμλ€μ κΈ°κ°μ΄ μΌλ§λ κ±Έλ Έμ΄μ?
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B : It took almost a month.
ν λ¬ κ°κΉμ΄ κ±Έλ Έμ΄μ.
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* take almost a month : ν λ¬ κ°κΉμ΄ 걸리λ€
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A : Did you have a hard time?
νλ€μ§λ μμΌμ ¨μ΄μ?
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* have a hard time : κ³ μνλ€, νλ€μ΄νλ€
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B : There were tough times, of course, but I made it back with memories to treasure for life.
λ¬Όλ‘ νλ€ λλ μμμ§λ§, νμ κ°μ§ν μΆμ΅μ λ§λ€κ³ μμ΄μ.
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* make it back : (무μ¬ν) λμμ€λ€
* memories to treasure for life : νμ κ°μ§ν μΆμ΅
Power English 25.06.26 — Resistance Bands: I’ve Made a Lot of Progress, Thanks to You! μ ν λ°΄λ: λ€ λλΆμ λ§μ μ§μ μ μ΄λ€μ΄!
Ashley : Layla! You look amazing!
βλΌμΌλΌ! μ λ§ λ©μ Έ 보μ¬!
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Layla : Thanks! I've made a lot of progress with the resistance bands, all thanks to you.
κ³ λ§μ! μ΄ μ ν λ°΄λλ‘ λ§μ μ§μ μ λ΄€μ΄, λ€ λ€ λλΆμ΄μΌ.
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β* all thanks to you : λͺ¨λ λ€ λλΆμ
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Ashley : Well, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. I only introduced you to the bands.
λ, λ§μ λ¬Όκ°μ λ°λ €κ° μ μμ΄λ λ¬Όμ λ§μκ² ν μ μμ§. λ λμκ² λ°΄λλ₯Ό μλ € 쀬μ λΏμ΄μΌ
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* you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink : λ§μ λ¬Όκ°μ λ°λ €κ° μ μμ΄λ λ¬Όμ λ§μκ² ν μ μλ€, κΈ°νλ₯Ό μ 곡ν μ μμ§λ§ κ·Έκ²μ νμ©νλ κ²μ λΉμ¬μμ λͺ«μ΄λ€
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Layla : I feel like I've finally cracked the code on fitness. I feel amazing!
βλλμ΄ κ±΄κ°μ κ΄ν μνΈλ₯Ό νΌ κ² κ°μ. κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ λ§ μ’μ!
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* crack the code : ν΄κ²°ν΄ λ΄λ€, μνΈλ₯Ό νλ€
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Ashley : And if you look online, there are interesting workouts and different exercises, so you don't get tired of it.
βκ·Έλ¦¬κ³ μΈν°λ·μ 보면 ν₯λ―Έλ‘μ΄ μ΄λ 루ν΄κ³Ό λ€μν μ΄λ λμμ΄ μμ΄μ μ«μ¦ λμ§ μμ
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* be tired of something : ~μ μ«μ¦ λλ€, ~μ΄ μ§κ²Ήλ€
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Layla : I know! | found a great channel online that I work out with.
μκ³ μμ΄! μΈν°λ·μμ μ΄λν λ 보λ μμ£Ό μ’μ μ±λμ νλ μ°Ύμκ±°λ .
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* channel : μ±λ
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Easy English
25.06.26 — Style isn’t everything. μ€νμΌμ΄ λ€κ° μλλλΌκ³ .
Ken : Do you have a swimsuit for this summer?
βμ¬μ¬λ¦μ μ μ μμ볡 μμ΄?
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* swimsuit : μμ볡
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Taylor : Not yet. Mine's too tight now.
μμ§ μμ΄. λ΄ κ±΄ μ΄μ λ무 κ½ κ»΄.
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* mine : λμ κ²
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Ken : I need to get a new one too. I want something simple and easy to move in.
βλλ μκ² νλ μ¬μΌ λΌ. μ’ μ¬ννκ³ μ κ³ μμ§μ΄κΈ° νΈν κ±Έλ‘ μ¬λ €κ³ .
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Taylor : Totally. Style isn't everything.
βμ§μ§ κ·Έλ. μ€νμΌμ΄ λ€κ° μλλλΌκ³ .
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* totally : μμ ν, μ μ μΌλ‘
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Ken : Comfort first - fashion can wait.
νΈν κ² μ°μ μ΄μ§. ν¨μ μ λμ€ λ¬Έμ μΌ.
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* comfort : νΈμν¨
Start English
25.06.26 — It feels soft. μ΄κ°μ΄ λΆλλ¬μμ.
A : It feels soft.
μ΄κ°μ΄ λΆλλ¬μμ.
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B : Do you wanna keep it?
κ°μ§λμ?
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* Do you wanna + λμ¬? : ~ν λμ?
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A : Can I?
κ·Έλλ λΌμ?
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B : Of course.
λ¬Όλ‘ μ΄μ£ .
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κ·νΈμ 25.06.26 — How to Respond to Narcissistic Communication Patterns λλ₯΄μμμ€νΈμ μν΅ λ°©μμ λμνλ λ°©λ²
A Havard psychologist has identified common phrases used by highly narcissistic individuals that reflect their inflated self-image and lack of empathy.
νλ²λ λνκ΅μ ν μ¬λ¦¬νμκ° κ°ν μκΈ°μ μ μ±ν₯μ μ§λ μ¬λλ€μ΄ μμ£Ό μ¬μ©νλ ννλ€μ λΆμν΄ λ°ννλ€. μ΄λ€μ κ³Όλνκ² κΈμ μ μΈ μμμκ³Ό κ³΅κ° λ₯λ ₯ λΆμ‘±μ΄ μΈμ¬μ λ°μλλ€.
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* highly narcissistic individuals : μκΈ°μ μ μ±ν₯μ΄ κ°ν μ¬λλ€
* inflated self-image : κ³Όλνκ² κΈμ μ μΈ μμμ
* lack of empathy : κ³΅κ° λ₯λ ₯ λΆμ‘±
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These phrases include statements that diminish others' worth, dismiss feelings, or manipulate through blame and intimidation.
νμΈμ κ°μΉλ₯Ό νννκ³ , κ°μ μ 무μνλ©°, μ± μ μ κ° λ° νλ°μΌλ‘ μλλ°©μ μ‘°μ’ νλ λ§λ€μ΄ λ€μ ν¬ν¨λμλ€.
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* diminish others’ worth : νμΈμ κ°μΉλ₯Ό νννλ€
* dismiss feelings : κ°μ μ 무μνλ€
* manipulate through blame and intimidation : μ± μ μ κ° λ° νλ°μΌλ‘ μ‘°μ’ νλ€
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Narcissists typically position themselves as superior while putting others down, often stonewalling when confronted.
λλ₯΄μμμ€νΈλ λ³΄ν΅ μ€μ€λ‘ μ°μνλ€κ³ κ°μ£Όνκ³ νμΈμ κΉμλ΄λ¦¬λ©° κ°λ± μν©μμλ (λνλ₯Ό λκ±°λ μλλ₯Ό μΈλ©΄νλ) 'μ€ν€μλ§' λ°©μμΌλ‘ ννΌνκΈ°λ νλ€.
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* position themselves as superior : μ€μ€λ‘ μ°μνλ€κ³ κ°μ£Όνλ€
* putting others down : νμΈμ κΉμλ΄λ¦¬λ
* stonewalling : μ€ν€μλ§, μν΅ κ±°λΆ
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The most effective response to narcissistic communication is to remain calm rather than becoming defensive or emotional.
μκΈ°μ μ μΈ μν΅μ λν κ°μ₯ ν¨κ³Όμ μΈ λμ λ°©μμ λ°©μ΄μ μ΄κ±°λ κ°μ μ μΌλ‘ λ°μνμ§ μκ³ μΉ¨μ°©ν¨μ μ μ§νλ κ²μ΄λ€.
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* narcissistic communication : μκΈ°μ μ μΈ μν΅
* remain calm : μΉ¨μ°©ν¨μ μ μ§νλ€
* becoming defensive or emotional : λ°©μ΄μ μ΄κ±°λ κ°μ μ μΈ λ°μμ 보μ΄λ κ²
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Taking a moment to collect your thoughts prevents regrettable reactions and allows for clearer thinking.
μ μ μκ°μ κ°λ€λ¬λ μκ°μ κ°μ§λ©΄ νννκ² λ λ°μμ νμ§ μκ³ λ³΄λ€ μ νν μ¬κ³ κ° κ°λ₯νλ€.
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* collect your thoughts : μκ°μ κ°λ€λ¬λ€
* regrettable reactions : ννν λ°μ
* allows for clearer thinking : λ³΄λ€ μ νν μ¬κ³ λ₯Ό κ°λ₯νκ² νλ€
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Setting firm boundaries becomes essential when interacting with narcissistic individuals, as does recognizing their harmful tactics.
λλ₯΄μμμ€νΈμ μν΅μ ν λλ λͺ νν κ²½κ³μ μ μ€μ νκ³ κ·Έλ€μ ν΄λ‘μ΄ μ μ± μ μμ보λ λ₯λ ₯μ΄ λ°λμ νμνλ€.
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* firm boundaries : λͺ νν κ²½κ³μ
* harmful tactics : ν΄λ‘μ΄ μ μ±
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Maintaining perspective helps diminish the power of a narcissist's words, understanding that their behavior stems from their own worldview rather than reflecting your value.
λλ₯΄μμμ€νΈμ λ§μ νλλ¦¬μ§ μκΈ° μν΄μλ μ μ ν μκ°μ μ μ§νλ κ²μ΄ μ’λ€. κ·Έλ€μ νλμ λμ κ°μΉκ΄μ λ°μνλ κ²μ΄ μλλΌ μμ μ μΈκ³κ΄μμ λΉλ‘―λ κ²μ΄λΌλ μ¬μ€μ μ΄ν΄νλ κ²μ΄λ€.
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* maintaining perspective : μ μ ν μκ°μ μ μ§νλ κ²
* diminish the power : νμ μ½νμν€λ€
* their own worldview : μμ μ μΈκ³κ΄
* reflecting your value : λμ κ°μΉκ΄μ λ°μνλ κ²
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Specific boundary-setting phrases can help navigate these challenging interactions while protecting emotional wellbeing.
μ μ λͺ ννκ² κΈλ νΉμ 문ꡬλ₯Ό μ€λΉν΄ λλ©΄ μ μμ 건κ°μ 보νΈνκ³ μ΄μ²λΌ μ΄λ €μ΄ λνμ λμνλ λ° λμμ΄ λ μ μλ€.
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* boundary-setting phrases : μ μ κΈλ λ§
* navigate these challenging interactions : μ΄μ²λΌ μ΄λ €μ΄ λνμ λμνλ€
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Remember that manipulative narcissistic communication reveals more about their character than about your worth as a person.
μλλ°©μ μ‘°μ’ νλ €λ μκΈ°μ μ μν΅μ κ·Έ μ¬λμ μΈκ²©μ λλ¬λ΄λ κ²μ΄λ©° μΈκ°μΌλ‘μμ λμ μ‘΄μμ±κ³Όλ κ΄λ ¨μ΄ μλ€λ μ μ μμ§ λ§μμΌ νλ€.
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* reveals more about their character : μ€νλ € κ·Έ μ¬λμ μΈκ²©μ λλ¬λ΄λ κ²μ΄λ€
* your worth as a person : μΈκ°μΌλ‘μμ λμ μ‘΄μμ±
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